Center For Indigenous Psychology (Pusat Pengembangan Psikologi Islam) diasuh oleh: Prof. DR Achmad Mubarok MA, Guru Besar Psikologi Islam UI, UIN Jakarta, UIA

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Memelihara Bibit Cinta
at 12:52 AM 
Setiap Manusia memiliki potensi; fisik, intelektual, emosionil dan spiritual yang berbeda-beda kapasitasnya. Ada orang yang sangat intelek, tetapi emosinya tidak stabil. Yang lain emosinya sangat terkendali tetapi intelektualitasnya kurang. Ada juga orang yang menonjol justeru potensi spiritualitasnya . Perilaku manusia dalam keseharian mencerminkan aktualitas dari potensi itu.

Ada orang yang berwajah garang tetapi hatinya lembut, ada orang yang fisiknya kecil dan nampak lemah tetapi hatinya bergejolak penuh dengan kebencian dan dendam. Demikian juga halnya dengan corak cinta, ada seorang lelaki yang jika jatuh cinta kepada seorang wanita, ia merasa harus menguasai dan memonopoli secara total lahir batin, tidak boleh sedikitpun si wanita memiliki perhatian kepada selain dirinya. Ia sangat pecemburu, dan jika ia gagal “memiliki” wanita yang dicintainya itu maka ia memilih “menghancurkan” sang kekasih daripada harus melihat ia dimiliki oleh orang lain. Di sisi lain, ada seorang lelaki pecinta yang sangat penuh pengertian, ia sangat memaklumi dan sangat memaafkan atas kekurangan sang kekasih.

Ia bukan saja tidak bermaksud “menguasai” tetapi justeru selalu ingin memberi kepada kekasihnya apa yang menjadi keinginannya,. Ia sangat berbahagia jika bisa memberikan kesenangan kepada kekasihnya, meski untuk itu ia menderita. Nah cinta itu ada di dalam hati. Hadis Nabi menyebutkan bahwa di dalam tubuh setiap manusia ada qalbu (hati) yang menjadi penentu kualitas manusia, jika qalbu nya baik maka seluruh ekpressinya baik, sebaliknya jika qalbu nya buruk maka buruk pula ekpressi orang itu. Orang suka berkata; dalamnya laut dapat di duga, dalamnya hati siapa yang tahu ?

Isi hati manusia sungguh sangat sangat banyak dan beragam, diantaranaya adalah cinta. Dapat dipastikan bahwa tidak ada satupun keterangan yang obyektip tentang hati manusia yang berasal dari manusia, karena semua manusia bersifat subyektip, oleh karena itu keterangan yang paling obyektip tentang hati manusia hanya yang berasal dari sang Pencipta hati itu sendiri, yaitu Tuhan, dan keterangan itu ada di dalam kitab suci Al Qur’an.
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